but: Will she make me want to become a better man?
The question is not to please as many women,
but: Are you man enough to wait long enough to
give the greatest pleasure to that one woman?
The question is not: Am I good enough to be married?
but: Am I good enough to remain single?
The question is not: Am I holy enough?
but: Am I holy enough to realize that I am the worst sinner?
For the one who is least childish
is the one who is least afraid to be childlike.
(taken from Chat with Alex hyung)